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StoryFeelings explored: Feeling unsureFeeling hurtRelationship patternNarcissistic abuse / controlManipulation and deception4 min readI thought he finally left her until I found the photosAfter five years of idealizing a charismatic man, I left my husband and sold our home, only to discover he had never actually left his girlfriend. A simple search on social media revealed a year of lies, manipulation…AnonymousRead →DiscussionFeelings explored: Feeling unsureRelationships142 repliesI don’t know if I’m overreactingEvery time I bring up something that hurt me, the conversation ends with me apologizing. How do I trust my reaction?AnonymousRead →StoryFeelings explored: Feeling unsureWorn outRebuildingRelationship patternNarcissistic abuse / controlGaslighting / reality distortion5 min readI thought I was the problem until my body screamed otherwiseFor years, I believed I was the one with the problem. My partner told me my friends were jealous, my anxiety was abnormal, and I was crazy. It wasn't until an anxiety attack on my birthday and a physical breakdown…AnonymousRead →DiscussionFeelings explored: RebuildingRecovery87 repliesHow did you regain your confidence?I’m out of the relationship, but decision-making still feels impossible. What helped you start small?M.Read →StoryFeelings explored: Feeling hurtRebuildingRelationship patternToxic family dynamicEmotional manipulation4 min readI Thought Depression Was Sadness Until It Felt Like MadnessAt 24, I thought my depression was just sadness. Instead, it was a terrifying anxiety that made me feel like I was going mad. Here is how I learned to separate forgiveness from acceptance, and why I chose to show my…AnonymousRead →DiscussionFeelings explored: Feeling hurtUnderstanding patterns53 repliesIs silent treatment always manipulation?I’m trying to understand the difference between taking space and using silence to punish someone.curious_heartRead →StoryFeelings explored: Feeling unsureRebuildingRelationship patternCoercive controlCoercive control3 min readHe Made Me Believe I Was Crazy Until I Wasn'tHe started with gifts and jokes, then moved to constant insults about my speech, isolating me from family, and gaslighting me into believing I was mentally ill. It took a colleague's question and a moment of clarity…AnonymousRead →DiscussionFeelings explored: Feeling angryFamily66 repliesSetting a boundary without explaining it ten timesWhat language worked when your family treated every boundary as a debate?AnonymousRead →StoryFeelings explored: Feeling hurtFeeling betterRelationship patternNarcissistic abuse / controlNarcissistic abuse / control4 min readI Thought Love Was Instant Until He Left Me on the FloorI met a man who felt like my soulmate in seconds. Within two years, he left me unconscious on the floor for four hours. Here is how I survived the abuse and found my way back to myself.AnonymousRead →

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